Don't Stop Loving

Love your kid's mother. It's the greatest gift you could ever give your child. Regardless of your emotions toward her, be as generous, forgiving, caring, brave, fair, trustworthy, nurturing, helpful, complimentary, and welcoming as you possibly can. Use every ounce of your creativity, everything you have ever learned to find ways to make your child's mother feel welcome in your life.

Smile a compassionate smile when you are around her.Ask everyone who knows her to remind you of her best qualities.Do not let disagreements get in your way of loving her for what you agree on.Let go of your expectations of what she would do if she loved you. Stop tapping your toe waiting for anything. Pay attention instead to all the good things she gives you, does for you, says to you, does with you.

What would you change about yourself if you divorced? Unless it will break your vows and your child's heart, do it right now. Lose weight, get in shape, write a book, go out for a beer with your friends, take a trip your wife wants no part of, give your kid a second bedroom and fill it with furniture and toys that are even nicer than what they have now, give them two sets of gifts at every holiday, take twice as many vacations with them as a family is a priceless gift a man will have.

Should unhappy parents ever divorce? Yes and this thing do happened. But the ones who should are unlikely to describe their situation as "you and your wife do not love each other." This is just the very common trough between when you love because you feel loved and the day you feel loved because you chose to love.

While in this trough, you feel frustrated. You want to love and be loved. You can tell your kids are getting cheated, and you imagine it would be better for them to have the two of you happy again.You think it would be better even if you were happy elsewhere but your kids still lived and go through the pain by them self.

What ever problem it's may be, there will always be a solution that may need us to look ,search and ponder.Solved there are amicably and may be with little helping hand from someone above.