Your Problem , My Problem or Family Problem !!

Problem? Tell me who in this world do not have problem? If you leave alone or leaving with a family or having your own family, problem do exist.When the child born in this world the death is certain one day but problem will be there through out his or her lives.

Take for instance a family problem which happened on day to day in people life.I will say even if God took the human form and leave on this earth God the all mighty can't run away with problem.A good example is a story of Lord Rama in Ramayana.Now tell me who do not have problem?

Family problems can seem overwhelming.With problem dealing with separation, divorce, alcoholic, abused or abusive parents,or family conflict, which will need us to cope and solve it amicably.

Every family has problems once in awhile.But sometimes family conflict becomes too much.Often,this is because of trouble understanding each other, changing expectations as you grow older or lack of trust among family members.It might also be because your parents see things differently from you since they are from a different generation,and maybe also raised in a different condition during childhood.

When conflicts happen you might find yourself changing your behaviour or reacting differently than usual.This is one way of showing your family that you dislike a situation.It may even make you feel like you have more control over the situation.But in the end, your reactions might confuse your family and distract them from the real problems.Try having a straight-forward talk with your family about how you are feeling.

For example,if you rebel against your parents or family on some decision that they make which you may not like it and assume the decision will ruin your future life,they will get upset of caurse,especially your parent which had to scarify a lot  in their life to bring you up.Instead, if you talked to them about what you feel and share your burden,they may understand your feeling and able to assist and trust you.

Are talking to your family is too difficult ? Some family problems can sometimes put you in a very upsetting or even dangerous situation.Talk to them because there are the only one you can trust and understand you well.Your friends may know you for months or years but your parents and family are there when you are born from childhood to where are you know.Put your trust on them and you will never regret.

You can't run away from problem as it will hunt you for the rest of your life.Stay put face it and solve which a happier day will be there waiting for you a head.